growing up on Ugly Betty

This is funny, because someone just told me on my main blog that i "have a lot of growing up to do." At the beginning of the episode, i could tell that Betty's objectives weren't entirely valid from a conservative point of view (but i suppose they are from a feminist one). You don't have to have a great job and apartment to find yourself! Like Ignacio said, "Being a grown up isn't about making great choices, it's about dealing with the choices you've made" (or something to that effect). i feel like i'm farther than Betty even if i don't have a great job and an apartment, because i know who i am, and i actually like her.